Wednesday 26 June 2013

9 Rules for a Simpler Day

Received his email recently from Zen Habits - See: http://zenhabits.net/
He suggests 9 rules for a simpler day:

1.       Know What’s Important. The simple version of simplifying is “Identify what’s important, and eliminate the rest.” So take time to identify the most important things in your life (4-5 things), and then see what activities, tasks, projects, meeting and commitments fit in with that list. Also take time each day to identify 1-3 Most Important Tasks (MITs), at the beginning of your day. Or the night before, for the next day.

2.       Visualize Your Perfect Day. This is not so much because this “perfect day” will come true, as it is to understand what a simple day means to you. It’s different for each person — for me, it might mean some meditation and writing and spending time with my wife and kids. For others, it’s yoga and painting and a hot bath. For others, it’s time to focus on the important work, but still get other things done later in the day. Take a minute to visualize what it means to you.

3.       Say No to Extra Commitments. Now that you’ve identified what’s important, along with the “perfect day”, you need to start saying “No” to things that aren’t on your important list, and that are standing in the way of the perfect day. The biggest thing you can say No to is a commitment — membership on a committee, involvement in a project, coaching or participating in a team, etc. List and evaluate your commitments (professional, civic and personal), and say No to at least one. It just takes a call or email.

4.       Limit Tasks. Each morning, list your 1-3 most important tasks. List other tasks you’d like to do. Say no to some of them. See if you can limit your list to 5-7 tasks per day (not counting little things, which you’ll batch). Limiting your tasks helps you focus, and acknowledges you’re not going to get everything done in one day.

5.       Carve Out Un-distraction Time. When are you going to do your most important work? Schedule it with a block of time (1 hour, 2 hours, 4 hours, whatever works for you). Make this your most sacred appointment. Become incommunicado. Close the Internet, all notifications, hold all calls. Just do the most important task, then the next one if you have time.

6.       Slow Down. We rush through our days, almost in a single frenetic anxiety-filled non-stop movement. Instead, slow down. Life won’t collapse if you aren’t rushing from task to task, email to email. You can pause, take a moment to reflect, smile, enjoy the current task before moving on.

7.       Mindfully Single-task. Stop multi-tasking. One task at a time, with full focus on that task. Practice mindfulness as you do the task — it’s a form of meditation. Watch your thoughts wander to what you need to do later, but then return to the task at hand. Your day will be much simpler, and much more enjoyable, when you practice being present with your current task.

8.      Batch Smaller Tasks, Then Let go. Email, paperwork, little things at the bottom of your task list (create a “small tasks” section at the bottom), minor phone calls, etc. … these shouldn’t get in the way of your important tasks. But they still need to be done sometime (unless you can let them go, which is best whenever possible). If you need to do them, batch them and do them in one go. It’s best to do these later in the day, when your energy is lower and you’ve done the important tasks for the day. Don’t let the small tasks get in the way of the big ones.

9.       Create Space Between. We cram our tasks and meetings together, and leave no spaces between them. The space between things is just as important as the things themselves. Leave a little space between meetings, even tasks. Take a break to stretch, walk around, get a glass of water, perhaps do some simple breathing meditation for a minute or two. Enjoy the space.

Friday 21 June 2013

Leavers Tea Towel 2013

This is Jamie's bit on the Tea Towel that we recently purchased showing all the Park School Day Nursery Leavers 2013

Thursday 20 June 2013

We Love Sundown!!

Once sports day was over, cousin Lucy arrived for the night.  Her daddy and Jamie's daddy were off to see The Who.  Auntie Chrissie and me took Jamie and Lucy for a lovely (kids eat for £1) meal at a local pub.  Dean would have called it 'extreme pubbing' as the pub is next to a main road, but Jamie and Lucy loved it as it had a little playground and some other children came along to play too!

What they also loved was our trip to Sundown the next morning. I was a bit worried that  Dean etc. might think it was a bit expensive (£11.95 each) but everyone had such a fantastic day.  The weather was lovely and there was hardly any tears.  Lucy didn't like the water squirting on her as we went round the pirate ride (Boozy Barrel Boat Ride), but the second time we went the water wasn't working so that was even better.  We went on the Rocky Mountain Railroad, the Robin Hood ride and the Tractor Ride more than once.  The photo shows Lucy and Jamie on the Tractor Ride - trying to catch up to Dean and Christine!   There was a number of play parks and weird story book houses and castles, the Yellow Brick Road and a wonderful sweetie adventure.  And don't forget the Santa Sleigh Ride..... And all (virtually) on our doorstep!!

Wonderful day.  Highly recommended!!  www.sundownadventureland.co.uk/themepark/

Tuesday 18 June 2013

Sports Day


Jamie's sports day at pre-school on Tuesday.  Unfortunately, he fell over on the way to the event (excited about competing) and grazed his arm and leg quite badly (blood!).  This meant before he could compete he had to have a plaster put on both wounds.  And then he wasn't in the mood for much running about.  He looked in shock throughout all of the morning - but that may have been due to being asked to run while balancing something on his head.  We definitely didn't practise that!!
 

Sunday 16 June 2013

Happy Fathers Day

I don't care if you are a rock star 'in the studio' this weekend Daddy, its time to get up and play 'Superman'!!!

Saturday 15 June 2013

Questions, Questions, Mummy, Mummy.....

I love my son dearly......but just recently I seem to be faced with a barrage of questions - fired one after another without time for me to think, before the next one comes.  And if I don't answer quick enough, Jamie asks it again and again until he is happy I have answered it.  He will also ask the question again or shout "mummy" if he thinks I am not listening to him, or have not answered his question.  He likes me to be facing him when I answer and make a definite sound - a grunt or a simple 'yes' will not do!!

Oh, and there is also the constant "Mummy, mummy, mummy", which can drive you mental at 6 in the morning!!

Daddy started a new job this week and will be away most of the weekend, so daddy and Jamie had a boys night; watching a Marvel Avengers film with all of Jamie's current favourites - Iron Man, Thor, Black Widow, Hawk Eye etc.   I spent some time catching up on paperwork and jobs to be done but I could hear Jamie with his constant questions....

Friday 14 June 2013

First morning over...

On the way to Jamie's first morning at 'big school', we stopped to do some shopping.  It was then I realised that although mummy looked good this time (shower, hair washed, make up) Jamie had not combed his hair or cleaned his teeth!

Jamie had a number of wobbles on the way, but I kept telling him that he was just going to 'play' and that made him feel better.  When we got to the school, I had to pick up his uniform, hand over the big pile of forms and also show his birth certificate.  There were a few children already there and all of them had the same bemused look on their faces.  Jamie recognised a few (as did I) and we sat with Sam and his mummy.  I have met his mummy's sister before and I certainly felt better for chatting to her.  Sam seemed as nervous as Jamie.

As we took them to Reception, mummy was nervous and when it came to leave Jamie I really did feel tearful.  However, the teacher took hold of Jamie's hand and off he went to play....

Two hours later and Jamie loved it!!  He had loved playing on the pirate ship in the outdoor area and talked all about the other children he had played with.   We now know who Jamie's teacher will be and he has another afternoon session in a few weeks.

Sunday 9 June 2013

First morning at Big School tomorrow...

.....and mummy has a form to fill in asking about Jamie's 'Personal, Social and Emotional Development,' his 'Expressive Arts and Design,' his 'Physical Development,' his 'Communication and Language' and his 'Mathematical Development.' 

Can't say there is anything that stands out as being a worry from my point of view - perhaps his inability to ride a bike just yet......

He is to spend two hours there tomorrow morning and has to take a bottle of water (not juice) and a piece of fruit.  I have laid out some clothes for him already and will get up early to ensure my hair is washed and mummy looks presentable.  The last time I went into school to order his uniform, I looked a right state and of course got chatting to the Head!!

Tuesday 4 June 2013

Sunday 2 June 2013

Family (from Aussie) Fun Day

After missing everyone over the bank holiday weekend due to the illness, I was so glad we got a chance to have an afternoon with Khanly, Charlie and Ruben at the park.  The weather was gorgeous and there was music on the bandstand and a few rides, a bouncy castle and trampolines, as well as the park itself.  We all had a lovely afternoon and it was great to see everyone before they went back to Aussie.