Wednesday 30 December 2009

Easy Weaning?

I don’t think so!! I am finding all this information confusing…....what am I supposed to be feeding him and when? Just given him some stage 2 finger food that looks like wotsits. Its everywhere!!

Is your baby ready for weaning? First signs include:
Still seems hungry, even after more milk.
Shows an interest in your food.
Puts toys in mouth.
Is able to sit up without support. (Hipp Organic)
Never introduce solids before their 4th month.

Make all solid foods smooth, mild and runny to start with, gradually increasing the thickness of the puree as your baby gets used to taking solids from a spoon. Don’t worry about giving them too much – they will turn their heads and refuse to open their mouths when they are full. Don’t forget that variety of food is key in order for baby to grow up loving food. (Hipp Organic).

All fruit and vegetables should be washed and peeled. Remove any pips, cores and bruised areas. Cook (or steam) all fruit and veg during the early stage of weaning (to ensure tender), before whizzing in a blender. Banana and avocado can be mashed from the beginning. (Tesco 20 easy steps).

At 6/7 months you should introduce fish, chicken and meat purees. Babies grow extremely fast in their first year and need nutrient-rich, higher calorie foods. In the first year of life a baby’s brain grows rapidly. A large proportion of the brain is composed of fatty acids. It is important to include oily fish such as salmon as it is rich in fatty acids – vital for brain and visual development.

Yesterday Daddy blended what we had for lunch, which was salmon and veg. Jamie seemed to love it, but 5mins later it all came back.....

Iron deficiency is the most common nutritional deficiency in babies and toddlers and the iron a baby inherits from his mother runs out at 6 months. Red meat provides the best source of iron so combine it with root veg to make tasty purees. Chicken is another excellent first meal – it blends well with veg and fruits such as apple and grapes.

Most babies will give foods with lumpier textures a go at 7/8 months. Even without teeth babies can manage lumpy foods. To start, rather than pureeing foods, try mashing or stirring in tiny pasta shapes to make the transition gradual. Encouraging them to chew will help speech development (Tesco) as the muscles used for chewing are also used for speech. Your baby’s coordination may also be improving, so now’s the time to begin introducing finger foods. Small pieces of cooked, mixed vegs and little cubes of fruit are ideal to start with. (Cow & Gate Weaning Guide).

As your baby gradually begins to take less milk and more solid foods, it’s important to make sure they are eating a balanced diet. This means making sure they eat a wide variety of foods from the main 4 groups:
1. Dairy Products like cheese, yogurts, fromage frais and suitable milks.
2. Starch foods like bread, cereals, rice, pasta and potatoes.
3. Fruits and vegetables.
4. Protein foods like meat, fish, chicken, eggs,

Drink
Water is the best alternative to milk. If you give juice, make sure it is diluted one part juice to 10 parts water. Introduce a trainer cup at 6 months and aim to have your baby off the bottle by 1 year. (Tesco 20 easy steps) It’s best to put juice in a cup and put only milk or water in your baby’s bottle. (Boots Weaning Q&A). Full Fat pasteurised cow’s milk can be introduced from 6 months in cereal or cooking. Skimmed or semi skimmed don’t contain enough vitamins for children under the age of two.

Monday 28 December 2009

How was it for you?

Was that it? All that build up and then it was over so quickly.... What am I talking about? Christmas of course!! Christmas Day we went to Nanna's (my mum) with my brother, his wife and Noah. Daddy stopped en-route at the pub and missed some of the present un-wrapping but made it in time for Christmas Dinner. It was certainly very different from any other Christmas Day I have been involved with previously. Jamie is now pretty proficient with his crawling - still a bit haphazard as to which bits move where, but he can certainly move when he wants to!! Noah has just reached the smiling stage so not too much trouble. Both of them had their 5-10mins of crying during the day and of course there was the constant Nappy changing, but I think they were both very well behaved and had a fabulous first Christmas. We all left about 5pm - Nanna went off to her sisters and my brother was entertaining his wife's family. Daddy went off to see his family but came back within the hour as Nanna Mo was her usual self. I went to bed feeling slightly merry!!

And yes, it was a kinda white Christmas as we had snow last week and there was a lot left on most surfaces. However, a lot of this had turned to ice by Boxing Day which made it difficult for me to collect Nanna from her sisters. For some reason I felt really depressed / 'off it' all day. Was it too much wine, too much turkey or just the sense that it was all over so quickly?

Friday 25 December 2009

Jamie's First Christmas

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!


Tuesday 22 December 2009

Me? Babysitting?

God knows how long its been since I last babysat for anyone and, now I think about it, why did anyone in their right mind leave me (no experience whatsoever) alone with their precious children? Now I have Jamie I doubt I will leave him alone with anyone other than fully certified relations, someone who has had a child of their own, or at least someone with a degree in childcare. But then I was in tears last Saturday when Jamie’s auntie and uncle looked after him! I would certainly not leave him with a young teenage (as I was) whose only aim was to eat everything in the cupboard and ring everyone I knew on their phone!! I suppose it’s a bit different now with mobile phones…… Anyway, I do remember babysitting for our next door neighbours at Pendine and after mentioning how I didn’t like the dark (or something) they never asked me again!! But that (and the revelations from the friend who accompanied me on a few occasions) is reserved for my other blog.

Anyway, back to 2009, and my brother asked my mother to babysit for him on Saturday night. She can’t do it (another Christmas party) so she asks me for him as its their anniversary. What she doesn’t tell me is that it is a surprise so when I say; ‘Still looking for a babysitter’ it kinda ruins it! So Saturday night I am driving down the A46 thinking ‘I don’t like the look of this snow’. They still decide to go out, but do return early because Horncastle has over an inch of the said white stuff while they are eating. They didn’t find me panicking about the dark but rather caught up on a lot of paperwork and feeling competent in the old babysitting. Noah; my nephew, only woke up once to be fed – the sucking of my finger told me what he was after. What was bizarre though was their AngelCare monitor. A write up says; Whether your baby is awake or asleep the sensor pad will detect all your baby’s movements - even the slightest breathing movement. The Alarm will sound on both monitors after 20 seconds of no movement. Well, this was like Chinese water torture, as the monitor lets out a beep at various intervals to confirm that they are still breathing. However the beep is not regular – as babies don’t actually breathe regularly – but even a fraction of a second later than before and my heart was in my mouth – madness!! And then when I took him out of the cot to feed him, the bloody alarm went off and I could only stop it by putting him back!! Other than that and the lack of knowledge about my brother's house and all their gadgets i.e. heating, TV, lights, kettle etc. I think I did well and felt a bit better about forgetting my Secret Santa at Noah’s Christmas party on Thursday. My babysitting may have made up for my baby brain – that is as long as they have not noticed I knackered their kettle!!

Friday 18 December 2009

The Bed(rooms) Too Big Without You

After a rather manic weekend with cousin Lucy's last visit before Christmas and the trips that this entailed, The 'Old Ventures' Christmas Party, the Lincoln Santa Run (2.2miles) and the Baby Signing Christmas Party, Monday night we decided to move Jamie into his own room.

As we left to go to the Christmas Party Saturday night Jamie was in his cot but was crying and I did not want to leave him. After bumping into Auntie Christine's car on the way out (extent of damage still to be reported) I was a nervous wreck by the time I got to the Bentley and I am afraid was a bit of a wet fish all night. When I booked it last year (while pregnant) I thought that it would be a brilliant excuse for a night out - I even booked mum in in December for a babysitter!! But when it came round I didn't want to leave Jamie....

And then on Monday; with the Nursery newly carpeted, we moved the cot and Jamie out of our bedroom and into his own room. To be honest I was more upset about the move than he was, as after only a few minutes of crying he drifted off nicely. Last night (Thursday) he hardly batted an eyelid; Bath, Change, Bed and he was away. The only worry I have now is the cold and so after we turned the heating off as we went to bed, I covered him - and his little hands - with a lovely thick blanket. At 2am this morning I checked on him and (as usual) his hands were showing so I quietly covered them up again.

Forecast is for snow this weekend. Could it be a White Baby's First Christmas?

Friday 11 December 2009

Commando Baby....

Continuing with the de-clutter prior to Jamie moving into his own room. Due to the rate at which Jamie is leaning to crawl, we are having the Nursery carpeted on Saturday – its not fair for him. Wooden floors are good for wiping up sick (and other fluids) but not so good on little heads!! He is already so quick; you only have to turn around and he has got hold of something….. and its in his mouth!! He seems to love paper at the moment and both of the ‘craft’ activities from the Baby Signing group have ended up crumpled and in his mouth.

His crawling was referred to by Auntie Hannah as ‘Commando Crawling’ as he uses his arms to put himself along, instead of the bum in the air traditional crawling!! Reading up on the Internet it said; ‘There are many benefits to crawling because it helps to improve your baby’s vital motor skills, visual and physical ability and improves the strength in their limbs and upper body.’

All this activity has meant I have been looking at the advice on Baby-Proofing the house:

  • Keep trailing wires out of reach and cover electrical sockets.
  • Cushion any sharp corners on furniture.
  • Make sure free standing furniture and the TV etc. can’t be pulled over (Once he is on the move, he’ll be trying to pull himself up on it).
  • Watch out for tablecloths being pulled on.
  • A Fireguard is essential.
  • In the nursery don’t have the window near the window and fit locks on the windows so they can only be opened a few inches.
  • Secure dangling light or blind cords.
  • Make sure cleaning products and toiletries are stored out of reach.
  • Always keep the loo lid down.

Some of these things I had not even thought about, but I have started to look at the house from Jamies perspective and move / remove items. And although we don’t have stairs I have invested in a couple of stair gates; one for the kitchen and one for the Nursery!!

Friday 4 December 2009

Jamie is now as old as I was pregnant for……

….I know which felt longer!!

Jamie is still teething – they are nearly here (two on the bottom) - but he has also been suffering with a cough and a runny nose, so we have had a few broken nights; but Calpol seems to help!! Today I swear he was just about crawling…..it won’t be long before he has caught up with cousin Lucy. I can’t believe how much he changes from day to day. I swore he grew while he was at Nanna's yesterday!

This week has been slightly manic as I have started wrapping the Christmas presents and de-cluttering the house at the same time. This means there is stuff everywhere but I keep telling myself it is all part of the plan….. As I said previously the house is not exactly baby proof so I have been trying to ‘get rid’ as Uncle Dean would say. My focus was sharpened by Thomas’ (age 2½) visit on Wednesday when he seemed to touch EVERYTHING!!

On Wednesday night, while Granddad was here, I got a few things out of the loft; including the fibre optic Christmas tree. I decided against the large fake tree for the front room due to it taking up too much space, but also because of Jamie and Lucy. Jamie loves the fibre optic tree (just under 3ft) and I have put all his (and Daddy’s pressies) under it. In the Dining Room there are more presents. This time I have gone a bit DIY and sprayed a trig from the garden with fake snow and put a few ornaments on from the Bauble Barn www.doddingtonhall.com/christmastime which we visited with Cousin Lucy a few weeks back!!

Was hoping to get on top of my jobs yesterday while Jamie was at Nanna's, but Kate came to check out what has been happening on FaceBook (its not allowed at their house) and once she had gone I found it very difficult to get anything started as I knew Nanna would not be long bringing Jamie back. Looking at the calendar I/we are very busy up until Christmas so I doubt I am going to have much time for myself. I have however, booked myself in to get my eyelashes and my hair done next week and have been invited to a Virgin Vie party so shouldn’t grumble. And today Daddy is off work to take us shopping – if he ever gets out of bed!!